Overly Complicated Animals

Portrait of a tortured soul ;)

Time-Lapse of Me Watching "Crazy Rich Asians" Opening Weekend

I thought I was too old to cry at a romantic comedy and I am.

But I still walked out of the theater, sobbing. I wasn't crying for anything that happened in the movie. It was more like why I cried for Killmonger's tortured character in Marvel's Black Panther: they were tears of recognition. 

It's a feeling related to this old cartoon. Representation matters.

Not everybody's going to cry. Crazy Rich Asians is a super fun, high-fashion, foodie crowd-pleaser, but there's a special wink-nod in the movie for Asians who grew up in the West. Thanks to Jon M. Chu, Kevin Kwan, and the crazy beautiful cast and crew.

If you can, check it out this opening weekend. Hoping its success opens doors for more diverse stories to be told. 

Single Girl, Asian Daughter: Lessons Learned

Shout out to Director's Jon M. Chu's movie Crazy Rich Asians, in the hope that it opens doors for more diverse stories & voices to surface. Representation matters. Thanks to all the trailblazers.

Throwback comic below: Single Girl, Asian Daughter.

Single Girl Collectibles

I share this as a cautionary tale.

Thank You For Participating

When you work from home ;)

On a Scale of Sex Appeal

If confidence = sex appeal, then I'm the least sexy person I know. :p

How To Feel A Little Better

Remember something that brings you joy.

Get it down on paper. Hang it up.

Keep going.

Debbie, Don't Be A Downer

Brain needs watering.

No Such Thing As Free

Elephant, hereby, reserves the right ;)

Guilty Pleasures to Avoid When Feeling Down

When you are not your best self.

Panda, Current Mood

Happy Friday :)

Daily Battles

My creative process.

Adulthood Plus Feelings

I *should* be a sensible adult about this.

Fairy Tale Ending IRL

There's a version of this for every childhood fantasy there ever was.

These Are Such Meta Times

Elephant observations.

A Love-Hate Affair

With smart phones. Modern life can be so weird.

Correction Fluid Self

So much white out.

Revised Dating Profile

Part of our charm ;)

Quality Screen Time

A measure of a life ;)

The Universe Is Neutral

Just reflecting you back at you.